Talking to different people in the hotel industry, to my own batch mates and even my own family members has made me realise one thing. Everyone I’ve spoken to has a set of their own problems. Also, ultimately everyone thinks their issue is the biggest issue prevailing and that everyone they meet has to hear them out.
So, my take on this is that all of us are in different levels of hell. With each one of us battling a different level demon. This whole outlook is more like a video game if you see really. The stronger you are, the shorter the battles. The more fragile you are, the faster you succumb to the monster in front of you.
In case you are in the latter category, what should you do? Restart the game or run away for the time being, gather all your resources and level up some more and resume the fight? The options lie with you completely. However should you choose to run away, you’ll always be your weaker self with someone defending you from every blow all the time. You’ll feel good about it for a bit but you will soon tire out from depending on someone all the time. You’ll feel like a waste and miserable. But you should also realise that you have another option with you. That is, get stronger through hard work and dedication. When you start doing this, you’ll be the saviour instead of the one being saved. The weaker section will now start looking up to you. They will want to be like you.
Now, if you’re in the former, you’re halfway through my friend. You would have already started to inspire people to be like you. The folks will look up to you. They will want to learn to use the weapon they’ve all been endowed with but lacked the courage and the strength to wield it. But you also have to realise that the more people look up to you, the more the pressure increases on you to perform and deliver consistent results. This shouldn’t mean that you stop rescuing people. It just means you’ll have to grow stronger and stronger with every passing day.
The choice is ultimately yours. The kind of warrior you want to lies in your hands wholly. Should you prefer to run away and not face the problem is something that you decide. Would you rather live a life by being called a coward or do you want to be remembered as a hero when you are no more is in your hands completely. No one and nothing can change your mindset. It is you and only you responsible for the transformation.
Be the one that slays or gets slayed, be the one that is dependable or the dependent, be the hero or the coward, the ball will always be in your court.
The day you decide to come out of your shell and join the likes of people who had long abandoned their former selves and join hands is the day your demon will cower in fear and this time it’ll be him who will run like a dog with the tail between his legs and not you. You will be ready to face him, head on with your sword drawn and your shield ready.
Make a wise choice my dear because this is what will stay with you all your life.
Let’s all be our own saviours that need no saving.
A Human Resources professional, a writer in my spare time with an innate curiosity to understand the world and an insatiable desire to explore the world.