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A comfort zone by definition is a safe haven, where nothing can go wrong. You are in your own world, everything is perfect. After all, you are comfortable, aren’t you? It IS your own world at the end of the day. What if someday, you are forced to extend your arm, nay, a finger even out of the zone? Would you panic or embrace the change? Knowing that most of us would switch to flight mode, it is safe to say, having your finger inside your circle is safer. But what if you decided to be brave and pop yourself out of small little world only to discover a whole new galaxy awaiting you? It is scary at first, but the unknown soon becomes known. What would you rather prefer? An exciting new adventure of growth or a life of being stagnant?
Over the period that I have been uncomfortable, I have always found myself walking on eggshells and sometimes it just feels like a bad idea of getting out and expanding your circle. But here’s why getting uncomfortable can help:
- Your brain gets rewired: When you decide to get out of your comfort zone, your brain gets rewired. You would be thinking,”why girl! You seem to be flipping! I do not want my brain rewired.” Just hear me out or in this case, read it. When your brain gets rewired, you are forcing yourself to stay in the moment. You want your brain to focus. When we get uncomfortable, we tend to shut down our thinking facility, but it serves well to remember that eventually when we do conquer our fears, we learn something new. Rewiring the brain is forcing ourselves to learn something new and unlearning the conditioning we were taught since childhood.
- You learn to overcome fear: This one is easy. Every new thing that you start will begin with fear. It is human nature to fear that which we do not understand. I remember when I started off as a waitress. I was terrified of people judging me, but I eventually got over my fear and got uncomfortable. I learnt something out of the experience, I overcame my fear and rewired my brain into learning something new. Any skill that gets added is never a waste for getting uncomfortable.
- It helps you grow: Getting uncomfortable is the probably the best way to grow and fast. You soon learn to overcome hurdles you never thought you could overcome and you grow so much more as a person. When you grow, you succeed.
- It keeps you healthy: Let’s face it, have you even undergone so much stress that you ultimately resort to self-destructive behavior? This could be binge eating, excess alcohol consumption, maybe getting too friendly with a woman named Mary Jane? I know I have. I tend to indulge in food when I stress out and I can assure you, it is not a very healthy coping mechanism. I mean, it sure works for some time, but it does not make the problem go away. The sooner you learn to deal with stress, in a healthy manner, the better it is for you. I recently started with writing down my thoughts and feelings and it has helped me tremendously.
- It helps you increase your Emotional Quotient: I know what you are probably thinking, “how?!”. Once you start recognizing that you are getting uncomfortable, you start noticing how you react and when you do, you start thinking of ways to reduce your reaction time and rather be proactive about the situation. When you are in tune with your own feelings, you now are capable enough of understanding other people as well. You understand their thought patterns, feeling their emotions comes naturally to you, because you have tuned in to yourself to understand where you come from.
- Getting comfortable is dangerous: Picture this- you have a steady office job, you are settled there quite comfortably. I mean, it pays your bills, your life is good and then one day you realize that the people you used to work with have been promoted and are working for different companies with way better packages. You see the picture here? I am sure none of you think that it is an ideal situation for you, but this is what getting comfortable can do to you. You miss out on the opportunities that life has in store for you, just because you refused to get uncomfortable.
So, there you have it. What do you think works best for you? Getting comfortable or being uncomfortable, expanding your skill set and rewiring your brain?
Comment below and let me know what are some of your ways of getting uncomfortable? Is it a new skill to acquire, a new role within a new company? Or is it travelling to a new country to meet new people?